Confidence, Self-Defense and Your Survival

Bernadette tried the moves she learned in a self-defense class against the drunken man who tried to rape her in an apartment stairwell. But her punches to his face and fingers to the eyes did absolutely nothing to stop the brute. Thank goodness that a security guard heard her pleas. … Continue Reading Continue reading

My Little Postage Stamp Sized Piece of the World

Years ago I had a re-modeler over to discuss vinyl siding my house. When he stopped by, he told me that he’d driven by my house many times and that the picturesque layout got him to thinking that whoever lived there, had a little piece of heaven. I never thought … Continue Reading Continue reading

Punch Kills 83 year-old—Woman Argues & Stabs Man in the Throat and a Bully Gets His

Last week, in Independence Ohio, a guy sucker punched an 83 year-old man in a gas station parking lot, killing him. The same week, a student from my martial arts school, who is Chief Operating Officer for a local hospital told me that they had a man rushed into the … Continue Reading Continue reading

Small Business in America—Trials, Tribulations and Respect to Small Business in America

I once heard someone say that no one who can’t pay at least fifteen dollars an hour to their employees should ever own a business. Having owned small businesses and managed a national company with Fortune 100 clientele, I’ve been a part of small and large. I’ve been a part … Continue Reading Continue reading

Accidental Shootings—Guns the Great Equalizers—If . . .

I listened to the trauma doctor as he talked about all the accidental shooting victims he operates on in a year’s time. He couldn’t give an exact number but he said, “I see them all the time. Either someone shoots themselves while handling a firearm or shoots someone else. It … Continue Reading Continue reading

Murder Next Door and Hugging Your Loved Ones

Lying in bed on a lazy weekend morning hugging your spouse, child or your pet. Relaxation. Peace. Life is good. Everything is as calm as a lake without a ripple. Wouldn’t it be great if all our days could be as calm! Many of us, if not most of us, … Continue Reading Continue reading

Chagrin River Road—Valium in the Butt and Calm

What relaxes you? Sitting in the sun? Wine, Scotch or perhaps a calming book? Or maybe you take a sedative to get you there. I knew someone who once got a shot of Valium in his hind-end when he had an anxiety attack. He said it did wonders. Whatever it … Continue Reading Continue reading

Not So Crazy Cat Ladies, Animals and Boob Jobs

There’s jokes all over the place about crazy cat ladies. You know, those ladies who don’t have a boyfriend, girlfriend or aren’t married, so, they accumulate cats to compensate for the love that they’re not getting. I suppose there are crazy cat men too, but you never really hear any … Continue Reading Continue reading

Chambering your Firearm and the Kidnapper in the Woods

It was three in the morning and almost pitch black when I waited  for the war veteran to take me out to get to his target. I heard the noise coming closer and closer. I held my pump shotgun and waited. Ashby Leach was a Vietnam war veteran and a … Continue Reading Continue reading

Spiders, Failure and Pain—Fear Doesn’t Have to Last a Lifetime

Being afraid of spiders, heights, public speaking or even of getting hit more so than other students while participating in combat sports, doesn’t make you a sissy or a coward. I know in the rough and tumble world that we live in, many would disagree with me. But the fact … Continue Reading Continue reading

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