Keep it Simple Stupid

The average street fight lasts from seven to ten seconds. If it goes to the ground, about one-minute. A street fight is any physical confrontation between two people. It could be a bar fight, a parking lot fight, you name it, any fight where two people simply duke it out. … Continue Reading Continue reading

Predicting If You Are Going To Have To Throw-Down And Fight

Did you know one of the best ways to determine if a child will become a victim of crime is to look at who he hangs out with? If his friends are criminals or better put, delinquent, he is more likely to be a victim of crime. The reason being … Continue Reading Continue reading

The Fundamental Truth about Training—The Way You Practice Means Everything—Including Your Life

Years ago, there was a deadly nighttime shootout where two policeman were killed. When the smoke cleared and investigators arrived to assess the scene, they found something very unusual. They found empty casings in both deceased police officers’ pockets. The shootout occurred in the days when police carried revolvers. The … Continue Reading Continue reading

Knife Attacks Worse Than Gun Attacks? No, But Yes…Graphic Content

The best personal self-defense weapon is a firearm. For general walking around self-defense a handgun is best and within the home, perhaps a shotgun but the latter may be debatable. However, close up, I fear a knife more so than a handgun if I have to defend against it. I’m … Continue Reading Continue reading

Avoidance and Self-Defense

One important aspect related to self-defense training is something that’s not taught very much and is actually looked down on by some teachers. It’s avoidance. Avoidance is what it sounds like. Simply avoiding areas or things that a prudent man or woman would. Sylvester Stallone I know a man who … Continue Reading Continue reading

Bigger is Better and Big Muscles Mean Great Fighters…NOT

  Most everyone thinks that the bigger or more muscular someone is the better fighter or bigger bad-ass he must be. Many people spend hours and hours in the gym pumping their arms, chest and every other part of their anatomy and many look tough and intimidating. They walk around … Continue Reading Continue reading

Alarms—The Good, Bad and Human Cockroaches

In my past life as a cop, I’ve been on literally thousands of alarm drops. They’re usually called drops which simply means alarm activations. How it worked was that either an alarm company called the police with a residential or business alarm activation or sometimes police dispatchers notified us directly … Continue Reading Continue reading

Rape, Burglary, Locks and Stupid People

The reason I used the term stupid people in the title of this article is that I have seen people, seemingly intelligent people, for years after being told of the great perils of keeping their doors unlocked, completely ignore advice to do so. Dr. Ron Sanchez is a supervising psychologist … Continue Reading Continue reading

Adult Bullies, Assaulters and Big-Mouths

Who are those adults who bully others? Are they the tough guys of the world? Or are they the neurotic insecure folks of the world? Mostly they are the latter but there are some exceptions. Some bullies realize that they’re big and strong and perhaps that they can fight better … Continue Reading Continue reading

The Terror of Being Followed and Stalked and What You Can Do

Written By: Steve Kovacs Stalking occurs to celebrities like David Letterman and it occurs to regular folks like you and me. Being a victim of stalking is one of the worst situations men and women can be involved in. Stalkers can be the single most difficult people to deter or … Continue Reading Continue reading

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