Adult Bullies, Assaulters and Big-Mouths

Who are those adults who bully others? Are they the tough guys of the world? Or are they the neurotic insecure folks of the world? Mostly they are the latter but there are some exceptions. Some bullies realize that they’re big and strong and perhaps that they can fight better … Continue Reading Continue reading

The Terror of Being Followed and Stalked and What You Can Do

Written By: Steve Kovacs Stalking occurs to celebrities like David Letterman and it occurs to regular folks like you and me. Being a victim of stalking is one of the worst situations men and women can be involved in. Stalkers can be the single most difficult people to deter or … Continue Reading Continue reading

Things That Go Bump in the Night–Locks, Lights, Animals and Scary Movies

It’s two in the morning and you’ve just turned off the horror movie you’ve watched for the last two hours. It wasn’t great, but you just couldn’t seem to stop watching it. You’re exhausted and can hardly keep your eyes open as you head towards your bedroom. For some reason, … Continue Reading Continue reading

Rape, Assault and Murder—Will You Survive?

According to the FBI Crime Clock there’s a rape every six minutes in America. Punching, biting, violent penetration and complete loss of control for the victim. And some of the victims are murdered after the rape. Throats cut, shot in the forehead or strangled. These victims are moms, sisters, wives, … Continue Reading Continue reading

Everyone Loves a Who-Done-it and Kick that Can Down the Road

On April 9th 2016 former New Orleans Saints defensive end and 2010 Super Bowl champion Will Smith, was killed in the middle of a street in New Orleans. There was a vehicle crash, police said, followed by a heated exchange and a deadly shooting. It looks like the homicide was … Continue Reading Continue reading

Equal Everything for Everyone! Group Think and Freedom

Anyone who knows me knows that I treat everyone equally and with respect. It’s just the way I roll. I treat a janitor the same as I would treat a CEO. In fact, I’ve made some close friends who are cleaning-people. Big-shot bosses and janitors are both human beings and … Continue Reading Continue reading

Showing Off, Being Better than Others and Finally Growing Up

When do we grow up? At 21 years old? 30? 40? Or perhaps 50 or even 60? When do we start not showing off to people like an adolescent? Or at what age do we stop trying to be better than everyone else around us? Don’t ponder these question too … Continue Reading Continue reading

Who’s Worse–Journalists or Politicians?

I watched most of the 2016 presidential primary debates thus far and noticed that the majority of the questioners, the men and women moderating the debates, were either firmly entrenched in their opinions and were trying to get their opinions to “win” or were shooting gotcha questions at the politicians … Continue Reading Continue reading

Abusers, Killers, Shock and You

I was almost killed by a criminal as a kid. So, you’d probably be surprised that I sometimes still get surprised about man’s cruelty towards man. But I do. Yesterday I watched an NBC Dateline show that showcased a high-school boy who murdered a fellow student simply because he thought … Continue Reading Continue reading

The Birdman of Northeast Ohio

About 15 years ago I was patrolling in the downtown area of a low crime neighborhood when I noticed a man carrying a burlap bag. He was elderly, about 80, and I noticed that as he went from parking lot to parking lot, he tossed what appeared to be birdseed. … Continue Reading Continue reading

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