People of the World…We’re All the Same…Aren’t We?

While at a grocery store yesterday, I struck up a conversation with a stoic but spunky elderly baker behind the counter. She had a strong accent that I couldn’t quite make out. Because all of my blood relatives came from Europe and also had strong accents, I asked her where … Continue Reading Continue reading

Still Here but Gone- Life, Love, Success and Reality

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Fall Has Fallen, Climate Change and No Politics Please

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Unknown Immigrants, Your House, The Creeps and Limits

It was 9:00 PM and the business owner was grabbing some paperwork from his small shop. His 13 year-old son tagged along with him that night. As they were getting ready to leave, he noticed an Asian man staring at him while smoking in the darkest part of the shared … Continue Reading Continue reading

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Be Perfect, Be Good and Toking–Up—Down Time Is Good Time

If you’re retired and doing very little or you’re bored or content doing nothing all day, this article isn’t for you. But if you’re busy, productive or running around all day, perhaps just to make it in life; this article may be up your alley. It’s about down-time. Break-time. Shutting-down … Continue Reading Continue reading

Social Media: The Good, Bad and the Sexy

I’m an older guy who uses social media a lot. Facebook mainly, Twitter secondly and minimally, Instagram. I know some people, mainly older, who dislike social media and some who actually hate it! They say that it takes away from human contact. They say using social media is hiding behind … Continue Reading Continue reading

No Matter How Bad It All Is—You Can Be Somebody

I’ve had the good fortune to have been around many people who have been in jail. Yes, you read correctly, I didn’t say misfortune, I said good fortune! You might think that it would be bad to know lots of folks who walked the halls of jail or prison but … Continue Reading Continue reading

The Biggest Sin of All, The Biggest Human Tragedy of All

What is the biggest sin of all? And by sin, I don’t mean religious sin. I simply mean what is the worst, nastiest, ugliest, biggest, “bad” thing we could do during our existence while on this planet. Well, of course, most people would say that murdering someone is the biggest … Continue Reading Continue reading

Mean Gene the Sax Machine, Booze, Loose Women and the Blues

About 20 years ago, I was the drummer in a blues band that played out at local bars, colleges and festivals. The band was mediocre, even though we had moments when we were very good; on average, we were just okay. As a drummer, I was just okay too. I … Continue Reading Continue reading

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