Flying Blind

Already running late for work on a Monday morning, I filled my travel mug with coffee and reached down to the counter to gather my keys and cell phone. Suddenly, I was overcome by a flood of panic. I scanned the counter multiple times as my inner-monologue began to state … Continue Reading Continue reading

Defending Against a Knife Attack-Devastation, Occurrence and Reality

Firearms are dangerous, we all know it and most everyone only seems to be worried about being accosted by someone with a firearm. After all, firearms are the biggest and baddest tool to disable or kill humans but don’t be lulled into the falsehood that they’re the only weapon you … Continue Reading Continue reading

Change is Good . . . Let it Happen and Feel Fortunate

Some people continuously spout that personal change is good and easy and while that statement is probably true, quite often, people stay relatively the same all of their lives. They grow up talking a certain way, perhaps swearing a lot or perhaps with having a gruff style and when you … Continue Reading Continue reading

Is the Pen Mightier than the Sword? Bullying, Anger or Change

In 1839 English author Edward Bulwer-Lytton coined the phrase: The pen is mightier than the sword. Since then, many have quoted the words and now they are considered an engrained proverb. It basically means words are more powerful and effective than weapons or force in accomplishing your purpose. Furthermore, that … Continue Reading Continue reading

Setting Resolutions You Can Actually Achieve

Right about this time each year, many people suddenly become very “goal-oriented”.  Yes, it is that time again when people sit down and craft their New Year’s Resolutions, setting goals and planning for the improvements they wish to make, or the things they would like to accomplish during the coming … Continue Reading Continue reading

Why People Lie . . .Lying and Consequences

Do you lie? Do you lie a lot? On the other hand, maybe you are like the people who rarely lie, doing so mostly to simply not make waves; like telling someone that his or her clothing is great, when it really looks horrible. Psychologists have many reasons for why … Continue Reading Continue reading

Religion Can Be A Sin–Religious Group of “Godly People” Are Wrong in Many Ways

This article may anger people as it talks negatively about a group of people who belong to a religious organization. Nowadays, it’s really a no-no to talk poorly about any religion, sometimes even dangerous. Before I mention which religion I am going to offend, I need to tell you that … Continue Reading Continue reading

Stabbing and Shooting Someone & Being Ready to Spit in the Worlds Face—But Then…

I had an acquaintance in my late teens and early twenties who went bonkers. He was handsome, cool (whatever that really means) and had a positive future to look forward to, at least monetarily. He inherited a bundle from a deceased relative which was in a trust that would keep … Continue Reading Continue reading

Why In the World Would You Do That?

Recently, I completed my first (and possibly last) full marathon. Though I received many of the usual obligatory congratulatory comments by well-meaning friends and family, a few people asked a very valid question: “Why in the world would you do THAT?” Most of them meant it jokingly, but after a … Continue Reading Continue reading

Who’s Your Hero? A Hero Might Have Touched You

Heroes. I always thought that a hero was someone who did something brave and dangerous in the furtherance of a common good. But as I’ve gotten older, I think hero means more than my long held one-sided view. One dictionary definition is that of a man or a woman of … Continue Reading Continue reading

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