Rape, Burglary, Locks and Stupid People

The reason I used the term stupid people in the title of this article is that I have seen people, seemingly intelligent people, for years after being told of the great perils of keeping their doors unlocked, completely ignore advice to do so. Dr. Ron Sanchez is a supervising psychologist … Continue Reading Continue reading

Rape, Assault and Murder—Will You Survive?

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The Serial Rapist in the Woods and Family Justice

Fear can grip a community, any community. About 25 years ago, fear gripped the quiet of Geauga County Ohio, an enclave Forbes magazine once rated as the fourth best place in America to raise a family. The way to describe Geauga 25 years ago is that of a beautiful rural … Continue Reading Continue reading

Human Cockroaches, Rape, Robbery, But . . . 10 Simple Hotel Security Tips

One balmy southern night a 45 year-old mom and her 18 year-old daughter were fast asleep in their South Carolina hotel. They were on a mother daughter vacation. Just two ladies ready to bond and have some fun. So, they locked their hotel room door and settled into their separate … Continue Reading Continue reading

18 Dos and Don’ts When a Loved One is Raped

If someone you care about has been raped, particularly if it was a recent occurrence, you’re going to be understandably upset. Most likely you won’t know what to do, or what’s best for your loved one, so here are some suggestions from someone who knows what it’s like to be … Continue Reading Continue reading

The Importance of Animal Rights to Human Survival

Many people claim to love animals. Some are indifferent, and some hate them. I’m not going to tell people they have to love other living creatures, but what I will say is that animals need to be protected for our own good. If there’s no love there, there’s no point … Continue Reading Continue reading

Don’t Just Survive…Thrive! Rape and Abuse Don’t Have to Destroy Your Life

As a ‘survivor’ of incest and abuse, I’ve been through the whole gamut of grief, mourning my life. It started out with denial and isolation – telling myself that nothing happened, or just pushing it to the back of my mind, and not wanting anyone to know my ‘shame’. From … Continue Reading Continue reading

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